The idea of women using sex to further their careers, and advance in business is nothing new. It’s been going on for years in male dominated industries, and it probably won’t be disappearing any time soon. We’ve seen it in movies, t.v. shows, and chances are you’ve heard real life stories of a gal sleeping her way up the corporate ladder. Or you’ve heard of those young girls who head off to Hollywood and spend more time on their knees, than in the recording studio or at auditions. It happens. Sad, but true. It’s a simple case of supply and demand. There’s always going to be men who want a piece, and there’s always going to be women who are willing to give it to them.
This is NOT what I’m talking about when I suggest using sex to get ahead in business. Not even close.
What I’m referring to is using your own sexual energy (which in my opinion is a perfectly natural, god given gift) to help you manifest what you want in life. It doesn’t involve manipulation, deception, or degrading yourself in any way. In fact, it doesn’t even have to involve another person.
I’m talking about sex magic. Combining sex with manifesting is one of the most powerful (and fun!) ways to bring about change. You see, the key to manifesting is to be able to clearly picture what you want, build up feelings and energy around that visual, and then release that energy out into the universe. When you add sex to the mix, your ability to manifest increases dramatically-like on an epic scale.
Why? It’s all about the big finish…the big O…the grand finale..whatever you want to call it.
It’s all about the orgasm.
During that exact moment in time, your energy system is a wide open channel. You’re able to send out, and receive information to and from the Universe in a powerful way. At that moment, your conscious mind doesn’t stand a chance in hell of getting in the way. You’re in the ultimate trance state.
It’s in this state that ideas/concepts/visualizations can easily be imprinted on the subconscious without any interference. The doubts you might have....the blocks...the limiting beliefs….all of the things that stand between you and what you want don’t exist. During orgasm, you can program anything you want into your subconscious, and you can project anything you want out into the Universe.
Here’s how to make it work: Sex Magic 101
Step 1: Get clear on what you want
Decide on what it is you want to manifest. Get a clear visual of it in your mind. If you’re a visual person to begin with, this will be easy. For example, if you want to be successful in your business, create a mental picture of what that looks like for you. What are you wearing? Do you see yourself leading a workshop? On the phone with a client? Are you reading a raving testimonial from a happy client?
You can also send healing energy to yourself or someone else using this technique. Simply create a mental picture of the person who needs the healing as being in perfect health. There’s no need to visualize their illness-focus instead on them being healthy. For example, if the person is suffering with a broken leg, visualize them happily running, jumping, or dancing. It's best to get permission from the other person before sending healing energy, or specify to the Universe that it be accepted by the other person only if it’s for the good of all.
Creating a sigil is another option, especially if you have a hard time with visualizing. Sigils are a symbolic representation of your intent. You can find instructions online for how to create them, or if you want to know how I do it, contact me and I’ll tell you all about it.
Step 2: Raise your energy
Once you know what you want to manifest, do whatever you need to do to get off (disclaimer time: obviously as long as it’s safe, and involves only consenting adults). You can do this either by yourself, or with a partner. We’re grown ups here, I’m sure you don’t need further details, but I will mention that the stronger the O, the more powerful this kind of magic is. You might want to try almost getting to the finishing point, and then stopping. Feel the energy moving through your chakras like a circuit. Do this a few times to work up your energy before the big finish.
Step 3: Release your energy
As soon as you reach orgasm, visualize the image you created in step one as clearly as possible in your mind. If there are any words associated with your visual (success, healing, etc) you can repeat those to yourself as you see your mental picture. Immediately after your big O, let go of the image in your mind and focus on something entirely different. This letting go of what you desire is so important when manifesting. Once you send off your request to the Universe, trust that it’ll manifest in your current reality, and then detach yourself from the outcome-don’t get clingy!
This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to using sex magic, but it’s the basic foundation more advanced techniques are based on. Is it for everyone? Nope. But, if you’re willing to experiment, you might find that it’s an effective way to manifest what you want to experience in your life, and in your business.