I am….what follows those three letters are the most important words you’ll ever speak. Why? Because the thoughts you think about yourself, and the words you speak are creating your life. You’re writing your own story. Right now.
So…tell me…what’s your story? Are you happy with the way things are? Are you living the life you dream of? Yeah? Perfect. No need to read any further.
But…if you’re not happy…if you want to change your life, you have to change the way you think. You have to change what you believe to be true.
I used to believe I was depressed, which resulted in 2 suicide attempts.
I used to believe I was insecure, so I used drugs and alcohol to gain confidence.
I used to believe I was horrible with money, and ended up going bankrupt.
I used to believe I needed a 9-5 job to survive so I stayed in a job that made me miserable for 15 years. 15 years!!
The me that believed those things is long gone. That was years ago, and I’m a completely different person now. It’s been a process, and it didn’t happen overnight. But over time I changed the way I thought about myself and the Universe. Am I the perfect version of who I know I’m capable of being? Hell no. It’s a journey. That’s the whole point of life .
Enough about me. Back to you.
Who are you? What do you believe? What kind of life do you want?
Here’s the thing…the thoughts you think create the feelings you have. It’s these feelings that send out signals to the Universe. These are the vibes you put out. If your vibes are high, you’ll attract all sorts of awesomeness. Dreamy people, situations, and opportunities will come your way because they share they same high vibes you’re sending out. Fabulous!
If you’re not getting what you want in life, you have to change the signal you’re sending out. In order to do that you need to change the way you think, feel, and act.
Sounds drastic? It is. But it’s your life. Your choice.
Do any of these sound familiar?
I am….broke…bad with money…in debt..
You can keep telling yourself (and the Universe) the same ol’ story. You can keep repeating what seems to be true, and you can keep getting the same results. Or….
You can start a revolution.
revolution definition: ” a fundamental change in the way of thinking about or visualizing something : a change of paradigm”.
The kind of revolution I’m talking about takes place in your mind. It’s overthrowing old beliefs that have been holding you back. It’s replacing toxic thoughts with empowering ones. It’s using your words to create your future.
The life of your dreams is waiting for you.
Your first step towards that life? Writing your new story by deciding what you say after “ I am…..”
The idea of women using sex to further their careers, and advance in business is nothing new. It’s been going on for years in male dominated industries, and it probably won’t be disappearing any time soon. We’ve seen it in movies, t.v. shows, and chances are you’ve heard real life stories of a gal sleeping her way up the corporate ladder. Or you’ve heard of those young girls who head off to Hollywood and spend more time on their knees, than in the recording studio or at auditions. It happens. Sad, but true. It’s a simple case of supply and demand. There’s always going to be men who want a piece, and there’s always going to be women who are willing to give it to them.
This is NOT what I’m talking about when I suggest using sex to get ahead in business. Not even close.
What I’m referring to is using your own sexual energy (which in my opinion is a perfectly natural, god given gift) to help you manifest what you want in life. It doesn’t involve manipulation, deception, or degrading yourself in any way. In fact, it doesn’t even have to involve another person.
I’m talking about sex magic. Combining sex with manifesting is one of the most powerful (and fun!) ways to bring about change. You see, the key to manifesting is to be able to clearly picture what you want, build up feelings and energy around that visual, and then release that energy out into the universe. When you add sex to the mix, your ability to manifest increases dramatically-like on an epic scale.
Why? It’s all about the big finish…the big O…the grand finale..whatever you want to call it.
It’s all about the orgasm.
During that exact moment in time, your energy system is a wide open channel. You’re able to send out, and receive information to and from the Universe in a powerful way. At that moment, your conscious mind doesn’t stand a chance in hell of getting in the way. You’re in the ultimate trance state.
It’s in this state that ideas/concepts/visualizations can easily be imprinted on the subconscious without any interference. The doubts you might have....the blocks...the limiting beliefs….all of the things that stand between you and what you want don’t exist. During orgasm, you can program anything you want into your subconscious, and you can project anything you want out into the Universe.
Here’s how to make it work: Sex Magic 101
Step 1: Get clear on what you want
Decide on what it is you want to manifest. Get a clear visual of it in your mind. If you’re a visual person to begin with, this will be easy. For example, if you want to be successful in your business, create a mental picture of what that looks like for you. What are you wearing? Do you see yourself leading a workshop? On the phone with a client? Are you reading a raving testimonial from a happy client?
You can also send healing energy to yourself or someone else using this technique. Simply create a mental picture of the person who needs the healing as being in perfect health. There’s no need to visualize their illness-focus instead on them being healthy. For example, if the person is suffering with a broken leg, visualize them happily running, jumping, or dancing. It's best to get permission from the other person before sending healing energy, or specify to the Universe that it be accepted by the other person only if it’s for the good of all.
Creating a sigil is another option, especially if you have a hard time with visualizing. Sigils are a symbolic representation of your intent. You can find instructions online for how to create them, or if you want to know how I do it, contact me and I’ll tell you all about it.
Step 2: Raise your energy
Once you know what you want to manifest, do whatever you need to do to get off (disclaimer time: obviously as long as it’s safe, and involves only consenting adults). You can do this either by yourself, or with a partner. We’re grown ups here, I’m sure you don’t need further details, but I will mention that the stronger the O, the more powerful this kind of magic is. You might want to try almost getting to the finishing point, and then stopping. Feel the energy moving through your chakras like a circuit. Do this a few times to work up your energy before the big finish.
Step 3: Release your energy
As soon as you reach orgasm, visualize the image you created in step one as clearly as possible in your mind. If there are any words associated with your visual (success, healing, etc) you can repeat those to yourself as you see your mental picture. Immediately after your big O, let go of the image in your mind and focus on something entirely different. This letting go of what you desire is so important when manifesting. Once you send off your request to the Universe, trust that it’ll manifest in your current reality, and then detach yourself from the outcome-don’t get clingy!
This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to using sex magic, but it’s the basic foundation more advanced techniques are based on. Is it for everyone? Nope. But, if you’re willing to experiment, you might find that it’s an effective way to manifest what you want to experience in your life, and in your business.